penting untuk saya ingat ni just in case bila bila saya lupa kan..

tadi kakak niza, rumet terbaru ada tanya satu soalan yang berdebar jugak nak jawab.

"dnie rasa, perbezaan minat dengan pasangan mempengaruhi tak?"

kakak tanya macam tu sebab dia cakap dia dan pasangan dia tak sama bidang, jadi susah untuk dia fahami pasanan dia.

then , i answered her,

at first i prayed to God that please give me somebody that have the same interest as mine and love things that i do. because to me at that time, i believe that's the ideal way of being close to my partner. but as time passed and after going 5 years, I've realized that me and Mr.Ted has little in common, too little that I've stopped looking for any similarities, or the least bit of anything in common. and I've come to realize that we are two very different human being possible on earth.

" kitorang ni sangat berbeza kak, satu kopi, satu susu, dua elemen yang sangat lain, satu lemak, satu pahit. tapi bila campur dua dua, sedap."

and i remember , I've once asked Ted why would he love me when we are sooooo different..he says..

" you're my positive ion, and i'm a negative ion. together we'll be neutral. when i'm angry, you're there to cool me down. when you're mad,i'm always there to rationalize your thoughts..see, we're cool..neutral"

that's why i forgot since when I've stopped looking for similarities and since when i started to embrace his difference. besides, i'd be bored to faint if we got the same interest since i tend to be bored pretty easy. in a way, he excites me, so many surprises, emotions and feelings every day. unpredictable. more to it.

yeah, just the way i like it. :)

ions.

oopsie: happy merdeka day. merdekakan la minda tuu.